20 Facts about Men & Love that a Girl Must Know

1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you.

(Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He

does not love you and does not value having

you.Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves

you. There is another reason he is not willing to

tell.)

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the

relationship.

(There is only one reason why he ended your

relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste

your time thinking of reasons or what you should have

done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love

you.)

3. Do not get hung up on your past.

(Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just

because your ex

hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the

same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same

way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple

mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What

happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not

because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make

him happy enough.)

4. Do not look into images.

(How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have

the best image in

school or at the office, but you get to know the girl

and found

out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on

images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not

fear men just because your

“supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.)

5. Always have your own set of rules.

(Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s

perfectly ok to

give and do everything as long as it’s worth it..And

it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.)

6. Do not be scared to lose him.

(Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once

you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken

advantage.Be strong and if something is unacceptable,

do not accept it and speak up.)

7. Avoid calling your guy.

(It’s a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be

better if it’s

the guy who’s calling, not the girl.He will get tired

of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest

and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s

a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy

until you dial his number. But avoid as much as

possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if

your suspicions are reasonable).)

8. There is a guy who will value you.

(There is a guy out there who can make you feel

valued, appreciated,

and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few

weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a

lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a

man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also,

do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he

really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type.

Remember during your first few weeks together? Where

has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into

you anymore.)

9. Always be the only one, no matter what.

(Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be

it his wife,

girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get

rid of for

whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves

you and for some

reason, he can’t leave or let go of another girl, then

you are no

different from any ordinary mistress.)

10. He must respect you.

(No matter how long the relationship has been, he

should always show

respect towards you.)

11. If he fooled you, end it.

(Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor

respect the

person again.)

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way.

(Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason.

Nor should you

enter a relationship for the wrong reasons

(loneliness, on the

rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency,

etc.) it is bound

not to last. You will only end up wasting more years

of your life.)

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship.

(Do not get into a relationship just because your

friends are getting

impatient with your dating escapades and the one

hasn’t come yet..

Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial

things like

money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of

these

things, you have not fallen in love yet.)

14. Do not settle.

If you are not happy anymore with your relationship,

break up

instantly. He will not stay with you forever no

matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he

will also want love and happiness in his life.)

15. A relationship has to have love.

(Love is the only thing that will push you to give

your efforts into

making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping

a relationship

requires genuine efforts of both parties.)

16. Don’t be afraid to be single.

It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever

and wherever

you want.You are free. You can date whomever you want

and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend

just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.)

17. Be a good girl.

Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the

relationship with

sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship

seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your

life with that person(of course, this is after you had

your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare

your flings from your real relationships, you will

know that the latter makes you happier and more

fulfilled.)

18. Love without limits.

(Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but

held out for some things, if the relationship ends,

you still get hurt. But if you gave

your everything, you were happy and you could say that

it was worth

it. If you didn’t give your all, you get hurt for

nothing.)

19. You will get over him.

(Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are

free to love

another.)

20. Be the one.

(Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t

hinder his

gimmicks. Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him

treat you as important. Don’t be easy. Don’t be like

every other girl he had in his life.)